There’s something wildly irresistible about falling in love while the world burns.  But why? What is it about dystopian romance, romantasy, and emotionally-charged relationships in the middle of war that makes us swoon, cry, and binge an entire series in one weekend? Let’s break it down—with psychology, heart, and five must-read book recs (including one you’re going to want to bump straight to the top of your TBR).

Whether you're devouring a YA romance, getting swept into a new adult romantasy, or sobbing into your tea at 2 a.m. because the brooding warrior finally called someone “brother”—the found family trope hits. Every. Time. But why? Why do so many of us crave these stories where people who start out as strangers (or enemies... or immortals with a god complex) somehow become the most loyal, ride-or-die family imaginable? Let’s break it down—psychology-style—with a little sparkle a

If you're craving a new adult fantasy romance with moody atmosphere, a dash of murder mystery, and a side of forbidden attraction, Kingdom of the Wicked by Kerri Maniscalco might be your next read. This book blends paranormal romance with a slow-burning enemies-to-lovers dynamic, layered in a gothic Italian-inspired setting that's equal parts eerie and enchanting. But fair warning: the romance is a simmer, not a sizzle—at least not in this first book.

Unravel the psychology behind enemies-to-lovers romance, why we love the trope, and must-read books that bring the fiery tension to life!

Rebel Witch brings more enemies-to-lovers, fake dating, and forbidden romance—perfect for fans of Heartless Hunter’s cat-and-mouse tension!

Love new adult fantasy romance? ACOWAR delivers war, romance, and found family. Read my review to see if it’s your next must-read!

Explore the "Touch Her and Die" trope with the best YA and NA romance books featuring fiercely protective, swoon-worthy book boyfriends!

A Court of Mist and Fury" is the ultimate romantasy with fae, spice, and enemies-to-lovers tension. Dive into this epic sequel.

Two slow-burn romances, fierce warriors, and a Norse-inspired world—Kingdom of Claw is a wild ride. But one couple stole the show for me...